Jump to your type and journal on one or more of the statements. For Each statement answer the question. What would happen if I believed this?

1. Control is an illusion
2. Others will never follow YOUR rules
3. Everything in life is as it should be right now
4. It is possible to outgrow judgementalism

1. My survival is not based on others’ view of me
2. Flattery is false & manipulative
3. Nobody can make someone else happy
4. Things will be ok without my help

1. Performing well is optional
2. Others’ thoughts of me are none of my business
3. I am lovable regardless of what I DO
4. I can lighten my burden and hope for a restful place

1. My melancholy covers envy – why do I need that?
2. We are not all that different….we are alike!
3. I am afraid of being estranged and therefore make myself estranged
4. I can partake in the happy banquet that is life!

1. Energy begets energy.  Energy is infinite
2. Do my old beliefs enhance my life?
3. The Universe will supply all my needs
4. The universe is abundant & giving

1. Life is an unforeseeable adventure
2. My fear keeps me blind to Reality
3. Everything will be alright in the end
4. If it’s not alright, it’s not the end

1. Gluttony (need for MORE) is insatiable
2. I am here now. I actually live in the present (not the future)
3. Savor what is right in front of me
4. I am calm and just awaiting my HP’s plan

1. Control is an Illusion
2. God’s view is broader and deeper than mine can be
3. What happens if I just let others do the work?
4. What if I slow down and let others can up before I make a decision?

1. Life includes PAIN (It is supposed to)
2. Some work is important to me- why do I delay doing it?
3. I matter!  I want to get engaged and stay engaged- how do I do that?
4. Checking out means I am not in the flow of life